Nica. Take Home thoughts
“How was your trip”?
Thats what everyone is asking. So here are two take home thoughts for you, that I hope can encourage your journey into the heart of community!
I could not help but see Nica through the eyes of community and the eyes of a child.
First, I saw God’s heart for the orphan in the midst of a community! There are those in every community who walk aimlessly wishing for someone to love them and care like family! One evening our team was sitting in central park when Josh my 10 year old son came up to me and asked if he could have my coke? I look at him and said you have your own, why do you want mine? Then he went on to tell me there were two boys sitting on the edge of the park who looked homeless and we wanted to treat them to a coke. Wow I was amazed at his heart for the orphan and his desire to know these boys! I watched as he and his friend Sam Shive spent an hour with these boys, learning how to fold long leaves into grasshoppers and flowers. They could not speak the same language, but yet they still spoke “boy” with one another for quite sometime. The next day they spent more time with one of the boys, and embraced as they walked away! I saw God’s heart through Josh and Sam, and wish to be even a bit that gracious toward people in need!

The next thing I learned is that to truly help people, we need to empower them to be all that they are created to be! Often times as Americans we think we go to help the people of third world countries get their acts together. This is not the way it goes, we need the third world experience and relationships as must if not more that they need us or our money! It is important to understand that relationship is two ways and we need to truly care and be cared for! As I watched my kids say good by to the boys in the home, I was reminded of how quickly we can build relationships that last forever, if we will remember to love first and not make our trips about “projects”! Most individuals in the world are able to discern true caring verses the kind of caring that is all about making ourselves feel better! It was great to watch my kids love unconditionally in Nica., really blessed this father’s heart! This is a pic. of my kids during our goodbye with the boys from the home. Again if you would like to learn more about the boys home, visit:
Boys home in Nica.

A book I would highly recommend:
“When Helping Hurts” by Corbett &. Fikkert
The book is about how to alleviate poverty without hurting the poor or yourself!
amazon link to book
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